Denial of OCD - This time it's real

Feb 05, 2025
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Unmasking OCD’s Tricks: How to Beat the "This Time It’s Real" Lie

Unmasking OCD’s Tricks: How to Beat the "This Time It’s Real" Lie

OCD: The Shape-Shifting Trickster

Ever felt like your OCD is playing tricks on you? One minute you're sure you have it, the next you're questioning everything. It's like a shape-shifting monster that always stays one step ahead.

Just when you think you've got it figured out, it throws you a curveball. You’re making progress in therapy, feeling more in control, and then BAM! OCD starts whispering new doubts in your ear.

The Backdoor Spike: A Sneaky Return

This is where the backdoor spike comes in. As your anxiety levels drop and you're feeling better, OCD sneaks back in through the backdoor. Suddenly, the lack of anxiety becomes your new worry.

It’s like OCD rewires your brain to expect anxiety. When it’s not there, it creates new worries to fill the gap. "Why am I not anxious? Does that mean this time it’s real?"

The "This Time It's Different" Lie

OCD’s ultimate trick is the “this time it’s real” lie. It convinces you that this new fear or obsession is uniquely valid. You start thinking, “All my previous fears were OCD, but this one? This one’s different.”

This plays into your natural instinct to seek certainty. OCD uses this against you, making you question everything. The more you engage, the deeper it pulls you into its cycle.

How OCD Tricks You Into Doubt and Denial

Sometimes OCD whispers, “You don’t actually have OCD.” It minimizes your symptoms, convincing you that you’re fine. This trick makes you skip therapy, stop taking medication, or give up exposure exercises.

Ignoring these tricks is like ignoring a small leak in your roof—it can lead to serious damage over time. Recognizing this tactic helps you stay one step ahead of OCD.

Using ERP to Outsmart OCD

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is the kryptonite for OCD. It’s all about facing your fears head-on and resisting compulsions. While scary at first, it’s incredibly effective.

Practical ERP Techniques

  • Write down your fears and read them repeatedly.
  • Record yourself saying "Maybe, maybe not" to your obsessions and listen on loop.
  • List your compulsions and actively work to stop them.

The goal is to let your brain learn that anxiety reduces on its own without performing compulsions. It’s tough but empowering.

Living Life on Your Terms

OCD wants to take away your freedom, but you can reclaim it. Think about the things OCD has stolen from you. Go out and do those things—live your life meaningfully and intentionally.

Remember, every time you choose to resist compulsions and live your life, you weaken OCD’s grip. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it.

If OCD has been holding you back, let us know in the comments. Together, we can unmask its tricks and break free from its cycle.

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